Thursday, December 12, 2013

we all deserve a second chance

Everyone's entitled to a second chance.
Maybe in your first crying and suffering stage, but today you are given a new lease on life ...
Do not close your eyes and your heart to another option , is not necessary to live with fears of the past.

Do not rule out love, you may now think that matters a lot and lived after the love is no longer an option . But all these questions and doubts that assail you will not be answered if you stay in your room getting yourself between sadness and reproach. Just open your heart you will know how far you can get being a new person.

Life is never the way you want it , when most hurt us more confident , after a painful experience we say never again believe in love , but the end is not.

You should not put your hands down , you should follow in your quest.
One day you'll meet someone and you will fear to step forward , fear of being hurt again , fear of failure and what people will say if you decide to redo your life ...

- Do not let fear control you -

It is logical that at first you will be afraid to repeat the past , but have the ability to face adversity , none can deny the happiness you deserve , we must all feel loved in life. You say you left you side by the first opportunity ? So what?
It's okay, all things can be overcome , we are able to do so . We all suffer a bad drink, what we suffer, but then we go to a "different page".

Today we have a blank book in which we can write a new story, a new romance ... that no one will take that smiling face, always people around us will question what we do or fail to do .

But you , live life without spinning backwards.
Be happy, fall in love , laugh , go through life hoping that this time things will do well and that everything is not so bad.
Just do not forget that not everything is as perfect as we want , we must fight for our happiness .

You must believe in the second period .

Maybe we are not perfect people , but unique , no two are alike , no one thinks or acts like you, and that's what makes the difference.

We may have a great love, a healthy relationship, no hidden defects . Keep going with these new plans you have, because that is something that you must , get the courage you have within you, and gives way to a new stage in your life .

Friday, December 6, 2013

The issue that is part of you

The way to carry out any generous of issue is to make it a part of you. For issue is not something you do only on weekdays from eight to five, it is who you are all the duration.

If you constantly have to remember to drill yourself, or worse yet, be disciplined by others, you’re not there yet. When drill and point of concentration are a part of your draw near to every site, that’s when issue is sure to tread on the heels of.

If entirety is just something you converse about and try to shoot forward, you still have a ways to go. When entirety is what drives your every determination, reflection and movement, then you’re truly getting there.

If you’re constantly concerned about your statue, your fame, and what other guys think, there’s still act to be done. When you can point of concentration instead on certain real being, doing what you know is right no body how it may appear, then you’re really getting somewhere.

Issue is achieved not by artlessly wishing to go out and get it. For certain issue does not be outside of you, but within. The issue you wish will become certain when you can truly make it a part of you.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

How to be happy in a relationship ?

" Is the question posed by Dr. Mark Goulston , a psychiatrist , business consultant and international speaker who suggests some tips for better life together. While there is no magic secret to achieve , Goulston suggests that his experience has made him

1. They go to bed at the same time
According Goulston , happy couples tend to resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. " Go to bed at the same time, even if one of the two was then raised to do things while their partner sleeps," he says, adding that " when they touch her ​​skin still feel a little tingling , unless one or both are so exhausted to feel sexually aroused . "

Two . Cultivate common interests
When low levels passion , it is common for couples to realize that they have few interests in common. Therefore , we should not downplay the activities that can develop and enjoy together, says the expert.

" If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them ," he says , recommending also have activities separately, so that the relationship does not become too dependent.

Three . Walk hand in hand or are next to each other

Instead of one of the two left behind because they go walking slower or stopped to see something , Goulston recommends walking comfortably beside the couple, and even better if hand made. If you want to stop watching something , you better do it together , or sense of business was lost.

April . Trust and forgive

In routine disagreements or discussions that do not reach a resolution , happy couples do not wear out , forgive each other and trust each other , instead of holding grudges and staying in the relationship reluctantly .

May . Focus more on what your partner does right than what he does wrong

If things start looking bad in your partner , you will always find something. If you do not, that is, looking good, you will also find things . " It all depends on what you want to search . Happy couples accentuate the positive " , says the expert.

6. They embrace the reunited after work or activities

" Our skin has a memory of " good touch " (Love) , " bad touch " (abuse) and" no touch " ( neglected ) . Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in " good touch ," says Mark .

7. They say " I love you" and " Have a good day " every morning

It is a way to cultivate patience and tolerance , as it is a good way to start a day holds problems, difficulties and other discomfort that may be at work.

8. They say " Good night " every night , regardless of how you feel

" This tells your partner that no matter how bad you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. He says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any disturbing incident , "says the psychiatrist .

9. Call or send a short message to your partner during the day

Call or send a short message asking how's the other day , is a habit of happy couples , says Goulston . Help keep the complicity and connection even when not seen, and allowed to be more in tune when they are after work. You can tell if your partner is having a bad day or had a great achievement when you can share reunite .

10. They are proud to be with your partner

A happy couples like being together and when out in public often shaking hands, rest your hand on the shoulder, back and knee of the other, etc. . Show the connection between them, sometimes without realizing it.
realize that the happiest couples often have certain habits that contribute to their welfare.