"Do not live only for your children ...
Not only they do not need it, that hurts them.When the child becomes the reason for living of their parents that's too much. It is as if locked up in a room where the air one day will end; though at first he can breathe, there will come a day that begins to choke. Drowning amid so much "love and care".So I beg you, do not live only for your children. Find him another meaning to life, find him another way to being father or mother. For children born on our planet do not become victims of debtors and your "charity" and care.Love your spouse. Children grow and he or she will stay with you. You can be the one of example to the children about how to live a life of healthy parents, so that they themselves want to have their own family, but you can also truncate the desire of your spouse if you get too much on the problems of your children and you forget about him or herself.Love yourself. Do not forget yourself when you fight for the happiness of your children. Do not deny yourself a dress or a tie (for example) to buy a new toy, do not change your salon or your hobby to pay a new tutor; if you do not take care of yourself what can you give to others? You give them what example? what love?.Look for him the meaning of life beyond the material. This life is not eternal and that's not even want to think about it. Spirituality, religion, prayer (or whatever way you express your spiritual life) can be a source of energy and zest for life that will help you not everything rests on the shoulders your children.Do not live only for your children, I beg you. When I meet children and adults whose parents gave their all and for them, it really hurts them in the eye. Many of them I see my own pain, I see sadness, broken hearts, empty souls. His eyes cry for help, cry out in pain, despair and guilt. They, like all kids, want to love their parents, but if they do probably not survive to their care.Give your children the opportunity to live and breathe. Then they can grow and develop in the area have intended. Our role as parents is simple: watering time but do not hide the sun, protected from weeds; then the child, such as a flower, you can grow on your own and show their best.
Not only they do not need it, that hurts them.When the child becomes the reason for living of their parents that's too much. It is as if locked up in a room where the air one day will end; though at first he can breathe, there will come a day that begins to choke. Drowning amid so much "love and care".So I beg you, do not live only for your children. Find him another meaning to life, find him another way to being father or mother. For children born on our planet do not become victims of debtors and your "charity" and care.Love your spouse. Children grow and he or she will stay with you. You can be the one of example to the children about how to live a life of healthy parents, so that they themselves want to have their own family, but you can also truncate the desire of your spouse if you get too much on the problems of your children and you forget about him or herself.Love yourself. Do not forget yourself when you fight for the happiness of your children. Do not deny yourself a dress or a tie (for example) to buy a new toy, do not change your salon or your hobby to pay a new tutor; if you do not take care of yourself what can you give to others? You give them what example? what love?.Look for him the meaning of life beyond the material. This life is not eternal and that's not even want to think about it. Spirituality, religion, prayer (or whatever way you express your spiritual life) can be a source of energy and zest for life that will help you not everything rests on the shoulders your children.Do not live only for your children, I beg you. When I meet children and adults whose parents gave their all and for them, it really hurts them in the eye. Many of them I see my own pain, I see sadness, broken hearts, empty souls. His eyes cry for help, cry out in pain, despair and guilt. They, like all kids, want to love their parents, but if they do probably not survive to their care.Give your children the opportunity to live and breathe. Then they can grow and develop in the area have intended. Our role as parents is simple: watering time but do not hide the sun, protected from weeds; then the child, such as a flower, you can grow on your own and show their best.
