How to tell your kids that you have a new partner and you're in love

Who has not felt a tickle in the tummy the day he was to introduce the groom to their parents? Who is not filled with recommendations to his partner the first time I joined out of Saturday with her friends and boyfriends? Years pass and yet show our affections the person we've chosen to share life remains a source of stress. We accept it, they like to adopt it. Now what happens when, over the person you have to cross with our new boyfriend is a child?
Gabriela W. was separated for three long years. Her children were accustomed to this new reality, one might even say that they enjoyed having two houses where they did the impossible to "not suffer the divorce of their parents." So far, a great or at least well-off.
But one day, Gabriela began dating a man, and after five months of being in secret, decided to whitewash the situation with his family. Although he needed time to discuss how to raise it, it was not because her new boyfriend wanted to take that weekend to the beach. Just counted, then, with four days to talk to their kids and her ex, who should be in charge while she was leaving "mini honeymoon".
In desperation, convoked a summit of friends to help her think about how best to raise her new emotional state. Here are some of the advice he received:
- Be sure the relationship you are living is important enough to become public. It is best not to subject the children to the vagaries of love from adults.
- It is your ex finds out for you in your new relationship, and they are not kids who will go with the gossip. It is best to drink coffee and talk alone what he has to talk. Even the way when you're organized.
- At no time your kids have to believe they're asking permission to rebuild your life. You're just sharing the joy of starting over.
- Call to relations with the name that you have. No more "Mommy has a friend." If you're a bride, you have to encourage you to call it that.
- Do not force the relationship of this new person with the rest of your family. The ideal is to be aware of and little neutral ground: the farther from home, the better.
- Be cautious with demonstrations of affection with your new boyfriend. And he is also measured at their shows with your children. Everything has its time.
What other elements must be considered when formalizing a relationship when we have children?

They create computer sodium acetate

Sodium acetate is a compound that is used for many things. In the food industry is used to accentuate the flavor and preservative. In textiles, to neutralize the sulfuric acid and, last but not least, to make those portable hand warmers. Do you know what? Are these gel packs with a metal disk inside that if you twist causes the solidification of the bag and release heat?

Well, there's an application that until now nobody had thought and is building computers. As I read, Andrew Adamatzky of the University of the West of England made a computer based on sodium acetate.

Sony will join the three-dimensional battle next year

3D monitors and televisions and there are several, but the mass application of this technology depends on large firms to join that ordinary consumers can buy one of these systems, and this would be possible from next year, as Sony has announced at IFA 2009 that launched the series BRAVIA televisions dimensional.

But that's not all. Sony plans to launch a series of gadgets compatible with three-dimensional display of images, such as Blu-ray, consoles (Did someone say PS3?) And even notebooks. Thereby create a new family of devices capable of providing more complete user experience and distribution channels that reach the main countries of the world.

Disney bought Marvel!

Become the main news of the day and probably the weeks and months ahead I tell them that The Walt Disney Company has taken control of Marvel, which means that the company achieved growth eared mouse brutal way to a world in which they were unrelated. The purchase, for about 4 billion dollars and reported in the Disney.com site and Marvel.com will allow the Disney Empire (no other way to call it) to completely control the fantastic cartoons company, which means not only be in charge of its publishing arm, but also of its film industry and video game industry, as well as possession of about 5 thousand characters marvelis. Disney respect the agreements previously signed by Marvel and other companies, but sooner or later begin to see some developments regarding the dissemination of company products. Furthermore, the development possibilities are raised to the tenth power considering that Marvel can begin to work with Pixar (another company of the Disney conglomerate) in the development of new film projects.

This is a spectacular and mega purchase actually result in an expansion of Disney's business to areas previously little explored. According to the report, the company of Mickey begin to develop various projects involving those 5 thousand characters acquired in addition to the important dissemination of their television series to be conducted through the cable channel DisneyXD. Moreover Pixar, now Marvel's sister company, you may begin work with the company in developing new projects, which immediately raises the question of visual surprise that we get to see in future and expected new movies superheroes such as X-Men Origins: Magneto, The First Avenger: Captain America and Spider-Man 4. It is said that the same John Lasseter, producer and creative director of Pixar, has already met with executives at Marvel to assess G-employment opportunities and was very happy after their first meetings.

Although Disney has said it will maintain independence in the operation of Marvel, will surely seek to develop new marketing channels that they can achieve important to get a slice of the profits from future films comiquero company, independent of who have previously signed agreements with third companies. Undoubtedly, this is a very important news that will develop and showcase new edges with the passing days.

Video explaining the Big Bang

How did the universe was born?, Is one of the most recurrent questions in humans, and so far remains unknown. However, we have some theories, the main one is the Big Bang.

On this occasion, the professor of astronomy and physics at Columbia University, Janna Levin, explains in very simple way the Big Bang. Without a doubt a must for any geek, either for financial or for entertainment, who like me, we can only describe as a huge explosion.

12 errors that you should not do while dieting

To be a beautiful and attractive women undergo many diets, often without any control and making many mistakes ...

And it is to lose those extra pounds is not a game and there are many people who get sick with some diets they just did not take into account a number of important factors.

We will offer a number of useful tips for your diet to go well. Some errors that should never make when dieting and that will serve you whatever you are following the rules.


1. Do not be tempted by diets that provide misleading results too fast. Cause significant loss of vitamins and also lose weight quickly implies the appearance of stretch marks.

2. Dinner too and no breakfast the next day. Remember that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, it gives you all the nutrients needed to withstand a hard day's work.

3. Saying "no" to certain foods is not positive. The best regimen is a balanced diet. Therefore, it is best to eat anything and not banish any food. That yes, here are excluded sweets, industrial bakery ...

4. To get only summer regime is a grave mistake. Many fattened in winter and make their diet only during the summer to look palmetto and not realizing that each year it is harder to shake off those extra pounds. There is a time when the fat cells of our bodies do not disappear at all, only empty but then refilled with increasing speed.

5. You should weigh yourself every day, just do it once a week. Otherwise, one can become obsessed with the scale ...

6. Do not forget the water! It is advisable to drink two liters of water per day, excluding the water we drink during meals.

7. Not to play any sport is also a mistake. With the diet is not enough to stay in shape. So the best thing is to spend even half an hour a day doing some exercise in a gym or at home. You can also start going to work at home walking or climbing the stairs instead of the elevator.

8. Beware of laxatives and diuretics. Abusing them can lead to not absorb certain nutrients that are necessary for our health.

9. Forget about taking pills that suppress the appetite without first talking to your doctor. These drugs must be taken under medical supervision because sometimes you might not be necessary or are contraindicated for us.

10. Eating quickly is harmful to our body. It is best to eat slowly, chewing well, for our body to better assimilate and digest food is made better. Besides most of the plate and enjoy!

11. It is important to all meals and not skip a single one. Otherwise, all you achieve is to accumulate fat to endure long hours without food.

12. Prepare some meals boring and insipid. During the diet we eat (almost) everything so why prepare dishes unattractive? Eating well does not mean eating the same thing, it can be very creative with the diets.

Did you know that stress has a positive side?

Given the constant changes, the rush, tasks, work, family and active society in which we operate ... this is stressful. It is a belief that such emotional pressure is associated with negative and destructive, affecting health, however, though it seems incrible has its positive side. What is it?

According to a psychotherapist, everything in life has two faces: one good and one bad, so does the emotional pressure, but to squeeze juice from this, we must channel it properly.

The same expert said that some of the benefits obtained from this positive stress is the rapid adaptation to new changes, improved performance and capacity; besides getting physical pleasure through the senses, for what it achieves maintain an ideal lifestyle.

In other words, if there are any changes, stress at this new circumstance, motivates the person to perform his job well, channel energy, and not allow the tension curb its capabilities. That requires having everything under control. In what way?

There are several factors:

"It required more than necessary and not feel perfect, as every human being have weaknesses to certain activities and we must be aware of what we are capable of doing and what is not. Therefore, as indicated is to work with the capabilities they have to get what you want and leave the situation unscathed.

Do not overload yourself with activites because the more
activites you have pending the more stress will grow.

"A good idea is to begin to solve simple problems in which sits the control of the situation, and confidence gained will help to address the coming challenges more easily.

"It is also essential to have good physical health, for example a person who sleeps and sleeps, at least the minimum recommended time, be kept in better mental state.

"Exercise is important because experts say it helps to modulate the stress levels , but be careful, should be moderate because the excess can raise stress.

"You can do a breathing exercises to relax the body and mind, is also good to listen to music, read a book or watching a movie.